Gospel Minded Mama

     As followers of Christ, we are called to love. It’s the very heartbeat of our faith, and everyone knows this. In a world that often feels fractured and cold, the desire to embody God’s love is a beautiful and commendable pursuit. We see brothers and sisters, filled with sincere hearts, striving to be compassionate, understanding, and inclusive. They genuinely believe they are walking in step with Christ—demonstrating His kindness to a watching world. But what happens when those good intentions, however pure, become untethered from the unchanging truth of God’s Word? What if, in our fervent desire to love, we unknowingly embrace teachings or practices that lead us away from the very God we claim to serve? Scripture warns us repeatedly about deception—especially in the last days. It doesn’t always arrive as an obvious lie, but often creeps in subtly, twisting truth just enough to turn hearts in the wrong direction. The Core Problem: Biblical Illiteracy and Cultural I...

Hey friend, I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how challenging it can be to share our faith in a world that feels so divided—especially with family members who don’t see eye to eye with us, whether it’s about politics or even Christianity itself. It’s easy to get caught up in heated debates, to want to prove our point or “win” the conversation. But I want to encourage you (and myself!) to try something different: put the politics aside. Remember, for many non-believers, their political views and their understanding of what it means to live as a Christian might be very different from ours. And that’s okay. Our priority isn’t to convince them about who to vote for or how to run a country. Our priority is to make Christ the main focus — loving God first, then loving our neighbors, no matter how different their views may be. If your family feels strongly opposed to you about about politics, God is the one who will help change the hearts of men. You can gently let your family know th...

 Hey friend, If you’ve ever sat down to read your Bible and felt a little overwhelmed—wondering where do I start? —you’re not alone. I’ve found that having the right Bible study tools can make all the difference when it comes to staying consistent, engaged, and inspired in God’s Word. So today I’m sharing some of my absolute favorite Bible study tools —all available on Amazon and perfect for your daily quiet time, Bible journaling, or even just getting back into a rhythm with Scripture. (Yes, these are affiliate links—meaning if you purchase through them, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. Thank you for supporting my little corner of the internet 🫶) 📖 1. A Good Bible I personally enjoy reading from the NKJV. And this one is a great size for everyday use and carry along to church,  I got this one for my husband:  NKJV Leather Bible But a cute journaling Bible could be a nice option too! Having space to write down notes, prayers, and verses that...

 Let’s be honest—life can be a lot . Between family, work, relationships, church, and personal expectations, it’s easy to feel like you’re constantly juggling too much. If you’ve ever whispered, “I can’t do this,” or cried in the middle of a laundry pile—this post is for you. But you’re not alone. And more importantly, God sees you in your overwhelm. Here’s a biblical approach to help you navigate the chaos with grace and peace: 1. Pause and Breathe: God Invites Us to Rest In a world that praises hustle, God calls us to rest. “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” – Matthew 11:28 Start by pausing. Take a deep breath. Before you make another to-do list, bring your burdens to the One who promises rest. He doesn’t need you to do it all—He invites you to come as you are. 2. Don’t Carry It Alone Overwhelm often grows when we believe the lie that it’s all up to us. But God designed us for dependence—on Him and on others. “Cast all your...

Sharing your faith doesn't have to feel forced or intimidating. In fact, it can be as simple as building genuine relationships and showing God's love in everyday moments. One practical way to do this is by using the BLESS method—a simple, relational approach to evangelism that fits naturally into daily life. So, what is BLESS? BLESS is an acronym that outlines five intentional practices that help you share your faith in a way that feels authentic and compassionate—not pushy or performative. B – Begin with Prayer/ Bless with Prayer Before you do anything, start with prayer. Ask God to guide your interactions and open your heart to the people around you. Pray for opportunities, for the courage to show love, and for the Holy Spirit to work through you. You may also use prayer as a way to intercede on behalf of another, opening up an opportunity to bless someone based on something they have shared that needs prayer. “Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful....

For the past few years, my family and I have frequented our local library, as I'm sure many families do. It’s a place where children can be introduced to the world of books, imagination, and learning. However, during our visits, I noticed something that didn’t sit well with me: the children's section was often filled with books promoting political agendas and topics that were simply not appropriate for young minds. Now, I understand that libraries are supposed to be spaces for free expression and freedom of speech. I know that librarians often make decisions on what books to display based on their own perspectives or interests. But when it comes to the children’s section of the library, there is a clear distinction that must be made. This space is for children, and it should reflect child-appropriate material that nurtures their minds and souls in a healthy, loving way. As a mother, I couldn’t just stand by and let my children be exposed to things that were, in my opinion, to...

  There was a time when I was all about learning and sharing. I was diving deep into understanding the world, researching so many things, and eager to share every new perspective I gained. I truly believed in open dialogue and spreading what I felt was truth. But then, the pressure started. As my convictions grew, so did the pushback. Many people disagreed with what I was sharing, sometimes strongly. The more I received this pushback – the disagreements, the dismissals, the attempts to "fact-check" or even outright censor – the more I felt my light starting to dim. It became harder to share openly the things I genuinely believed were true.  It was frustrating, especially when some of those "controversial" things I shared later turned out to be completely true. Looking back, I realize I backed down. I held back when I could have continued to share what I understood to be truth with the world. And in that reflection, a powerful realization hit me: this is a tactic of ...

  I recently watched a super interesting debate with Candace Owens and a bunch of feminists. One part really stuck out: the feminists tried to trap Candace by saying she believes a woman's value comes from how men see her, especially based on a woman's past relationships. But I think they totally missed the point, and it's something worth talking about. watch the video here: https://youtu.be/UyzbSeVBxvk?si=jpVJIU-xz58T4ZfR My view is that it's not about what men think. It's about how a woman sees herself and, even deeper, her value as a person made in God's image. Your Worth Isn't Up for Debate First off, a woman's true value isn't something a guy can give her or take away. It's not based on who she dates or how many partners she's had. From my perspective, a woman's worth comes from the fact that she's made in the image of God. That means she has a deep, built-in value that can't be changed or messed with by anyone else's opi...

There are seasons in life where we feel aimless. Numb. Like the days blur together and we’re just going through the motions. I’ve felt that. Maybe you have too. That quiet ache of wondering, “What am I even doing with my life?” But I want to remind you— you were created on purpose, for a purpose. Our God is a Creator . In the very beginning, He didn’t start with a factory—He started with a garden (Genesis 2:8). He formed beauty from dust, spoke light into darkness, and shaped life with His hands. And since we are made in His image (Genesis 1:27), that means we are creators too. Not necessarily of grand masterpieces—but of beauty, peace, joy, and light in the everyday moments. When I started feeling that sense of purposelessness creep in, I chose to respond by creating. Not for social media. Not for applause. But to reflect my Creator and bring beauty into my world. I've started decorating our home on a budget, making it a place that feels joyful and welcoming. I've been bak...

As mothers, it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking we have to raise our children with perfect structure, routines, and outcomes—almost like we’re managing a factory. But God didn’t design our children to roll off an assembly line. They’re each uniquely crafted, and our homes are more like gardens than factories. In a garden, things grow in seasons. Some plants need more water. Others thrive in the sun. Some bloom early, while others take longer. This is how our children grow—at different paces, with different needs, and in ways we don’t always anticipate. That’s why flexibility is essential. But flexibility doesn’t mean we abandon all structure or guidance. It means we lean not on our own understanding, but on the Word of God and the guidance of the Holy Spirit . Parenting isn't about control; it’s about cultivating . And that cultivation begins with our own hearts. Jesus said in John 15:5, “I am the vine, you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will be...

Marriage, as God designed it, is a sacred covenant between a man and a woman—meant to last a lifetime. It is more than a legal union or a romantic partnership. It is a living picture of Christ and the Church: full of love, sacrifice, grace, and unity. In a world that often distorts or dismisses this truth, we find ourselves surrounded by voices telling us to give up when things get hard. Divorce is common. Division is normalized. Self comes first. But God calls us to something higher—something holy. Marriage isn’t always easy. Two imperfect people becoming one is a lifelong process. But it's a beautiful one, worth every ounce of prayer, effort, and commitment. When Scripture says “the two shall become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24), it touches every part of our lives. We become one in: Finances – Stewarding money together with transparency and shared goals. Intimacy – Cultivating a safe, loving, and joy-filled bond that honors each other. Emotional connection – Listening,...

When I became a mother for the first time, I named my daughter Grace —not fully realizing how fitting that name would become for the journey ahead. Grace was such a gift. She made me a mom, changed my heart, and filled our home with joy. But what I didn’t expect was how much grace I would need to give myself in the process of becoming the mother God was shaping me to be. As a mom of four now, I look back and see how much pressure I put on myself—especially in those early days. We live in a world flooded with information: expert advice, parenting books, influencers, reels, podcasts. And while many of these voices are helpful, they often contradict each other, leaving us wondering: Who do I trust? Am I doing this right? Here’s what I’ve learned: start with prayer. Before diving into another blog post or video, talk to the One who created you—and your child. God is not only the author of life, but the sustainer of your motherhood. He’s ready to give wisdom when you ask. Talk with your...

As mothers, we carry a deep desire to do our best—for our children, our families, and our homes. But in the quiet places of our hearts, we sometimes question why we’re striving. Are we trying to earn God’s approval? Trying to prove something to ourselves or others? The truth is, we don’t mother out of a need to gain God’s favor. We already have it—fully and freely—because of what Christ has done for us. The cross is our reminder that we are loved, chosen, and accepted, not because we’re perfect, but because He is. So we pursue excellence in our motherhood not as a burden, but as a joyful response to God’s grace. We give our best—not to be enough, but because He is enough. We serve our families out of gratitude, not guilt. That also means we never stop growing. When we learn better, we do better—not out of shame, but out of love. We seek wisdom, we listen, we reflect, and we refine. Not for perfection’s sake, but because we want to leave a legacy rooted in truth, grace, and love. A ...

No two families are exactly the same—and neither are the ways we mother. Some of us homeschool, others send our children to public or private school. Some work outside the home, others stay home full-time. Some of us live in quiet rural places, others in busy cities. Our circumstances shape our rhythms, routines, and even our parenting styles. And yet, as Christian mothers, we share a common foundation: the truth of God’s Word. In a world full of conflicting advice and ever-changing opinions, we need something steady to guide our hearts and our homes. That truth is found in Christ, and in the Word He has given us. No matter how different our homes may look from the outside, we are all called to raise our children with love, with grace, and with truth that never wavers. One of the greatest gifts in this journey is the partnership we have with our husbands. God designed family to be a team effort. While our roles may differ in expression, we are meant to walk together—listening to each...

Becoming a mother is one of the most sacred transformations a woman can experience. From the very beginning, when that tiny heartbeat becomes part of your own, something shifts deep within. Suddenly, life is no longer just about you—your plans, your preferences, your comfort. It becomes about someone else entirely. Someone God has entrusted to your care. I won’t pretend the change is always easy. There are sleepless nights, tired mornings, and days when you feel like you’ve lost parts of yourself. But here’s the beautiful truth: in that losing, you begin to find something even greater. You find purpose. You find grace. You find strength you didn’t know you had. Motherhood has a way of tenderly stretching your heart, teaching you to serve without expecting anything in return. It transforms selfishness into selflessness—not through guilt or duty, but through love. A love that mirrors Christ’s love for us: patient, forgiving, unwavering. If you’re not a mother yet, know this—your life i...