What's a Woman's Worth? My Take on That Candace Owens Debate
I recently watched a super interesting debate with Candace Owens and a bunch of feminists. One part really stuck out: the feminists tried to trap Candace by saying she believes a woman's value comes from how men see her, especially based on a woman's past relationships. But I think they totally missed the point, and it's something worth talking about.
My view is that it's not about what men think. It's about how a woman sees herself and, even deeper, her value as a person made in God's image.
Your Worth Isn't Up for Debate
First off, a woman's true value isn't something a guy can give her or take away. It's not based on who she dates or how many partners she's had. From my perspective, a woman's worth comes from the fact that she's made in the image of God. That means she has a deep, built-in value that can't be changed or messed with by anyone else's opinions. It's a fundamental part of who she is.
So, when the feminists tried to say Candace thinks a woman's worth is about male approval, they were missing this huge point. Your value isn't on a sliding scale based on what others think; it's just there, always.
The "Supply and Demand" of You
Now, where it gets tricky is how our choices can reflect our value, especially when it comes to relationships and intimacy. Think about it like "supply and demand." If something is rare and special, it's usually seen as more valuable. But if it's given away freely to everyone, its perceived value might go down.
This isn't about shaming anyone. It's about recognizing that when intimacy is given without any real commitment or sacrifice from a man, it can send a message. Not that a woman's actual worth changes, but that her most personal self might be seen as "cheap" because there was no effort or sacrifice required to get it.
When men don't have to put in effort, pursue, or commit, it can lead to relationships that aren't as deep or respectful. There's no real "exchange of value," and it might show what someone truly thinks of themselves if they're giving away something so precious for so little.
From a faith perspective, God's way often means valuing commitment and self-respect in relationships. It's about understanding your high worth and saving the most intimate parts of yourself for someone who truly values you and is willing to sacrifice for you. It’s about protecting your heart and body in a way that truly honors how valuable you are, leading to stronger, more meaningful connections.
What are your thoughts on this? Did you see the debate?
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