Gospel Minded Mama

We live in a culture that teaches women to be self-sufficient, fiercely independent, and always ready to take control. From a very young age, we are trained to believe that if something needs to be done right, we have to do it ourselves. Sadly, many of us carry this exact momentum into our marriages. When a husband is quiet, deliberating, or perhaps struggling to find his footing in leadership, our default response is often to step in and handle it. We take on a masculine posture of control, steering the family, making the executive calls, and managing the spiritual atmosphere of the home. But when we take on the leadership over our husbands, we inadvertently freeze them out of the very role God created them to fill. True biblical order requires us to do something that cuts entirely against our modern conditioning: we have to lay down the reins and allow our husbands to step into their God-given authority. Sacrificial, Not "Servant" Leadership In the modern church, we hear a ...

When a local church loses its grip on biblical order, the fallout doesn't happen overnight. It happens through a slow, quiet drift. In our culture today, we are constantly being fed a feminist mindset that tells us authority and leadership should be entirely fluid. Sadly, many churches have accepted these lies as truth, believing that the Bible’s instructions on church order were just for an ancient culture rather than timeless truth for all ages. It is no wonder we are in so much error as a culture. When a church follows the culture instead of the Word, a specific kind of disorder sets in. It usually looks like a two-way street: passive men and over-spiritualized women operating out of order.    The Spectrum of Unauthorized Leadership There is a spectrum and nuance to these conversations, but the reality is right in front of us. In some circles, women openly call themselves "pastors" and operate as such. In other, more conservative circles, the drift is subtler. We might...