You Don’t Have to Be The Best — Just Do Your Best

In our home, there’s a saying that comes up often:
“You don’t have to be the best—you just have to do your best.” 

This simple phrase guides so much of what we believe about effort, character, and identity. It’s a reminder to ourselves and our children that life isn’t about competing with others. It’s about being faithful with what God has given us.

We don’t all have the same talents, gifts, or strengths—and that’s a good thing. God has fashioned each of us uniquely, with specific propensities, callings, and purposes. Instead of striving to be better than someone else, we aim to be faithful stewards of what God has entrusted to us.

We remind our children that their best effort, done with the right heart, matters deeply to God.

“And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men.”
—Colossians 3:23 (NKJV)

Our ultimate goal isn’t perfection—it’s glorifying God. Whether we’re studying, working, parenting, playing, or simply going through the motions of daily life, we are called to do it all in a way that honors Him.

“Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”
—1 Corinthians 10:31 (NKJV)

Even when no one else sees the effort, God does.

We have an opportunity—and a responsibility—to reflect Christ to the world around us. If you’re a follower of Jesus, your life should reflect that truth in every sphere. It shouldn't be your best-kept secret.

Jesus gave His disciples a clear command:

“Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.”
—Matthew 28:19 (NKJV)

Making disciples starts with living a life that points to Him.

One of the most effective ways to show Christ to others is through your attitude and work ethic. A joyful, diligent life stands out in a weary, hurried world. I’ve personally found that people are most likely to approach me when they see me out and about with my children, especially when they are behaving well.

But that kind of behavior doesn’t come effortlessly—it’s the result of intentional parenting, day in and day out. Yes, we make time for fun, rest, and freedom, but we also teach our kids that life requires effort and structure. Even when it feels like work, we strive to do it with joy and purpose.

At the end of the day, our hope is that the way we live—how we work, parent, speak, and love—would shine brightly for others to see and ultimately glorify God.

“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.”
—Matthew 5:16 (NKJV)

So be encouraged: You don’t have to be the best. But you are called to do your best. Teach your children the same. Live joyfully. Work diligently. And let your life point others to Jesus.